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They might simply be responding to how YOU present yourself. Kill the "Stealth" Gold Diggers with Boredom Obvious gold diggers are obvious. A determined and experienced woman is going to be far better at manipulating you than you will ever be at detecting her manipulation.
It's the stealth ones you need to watch out for - the women who only value money, but pretend not to be gold diggers.
Again, this is just a made-up example and I am exaggerating for effect. There are a lot of great cheap date ideas; spending a lot of money on her too soon is not ineffective, it can even be a turnoff for most non gold-digging women (who don't appreciate being treated as gold diggers). Sorry to burst your bubbles or egos, but the ONLY reasons a younger woman dates an older man 99.9% of the time is because she is a gold digger or she has psychological daddy issues. Sorry to burst your bubbles or egos, but the ONLY reasons a younger woman dates an older man 99.9% of the time is because she is a gold digger or she has psychological daddy issues.
But if you tend to attract gold diggers, take a very, very close look at what cues you are giving women.
Sometimes I’ll let it slip (falsely) that I owe five months of back-rent or I maxed out my credit cards, just to test how fast they’ll look at their watches and calculate when they can politely go home.” Men – both rich and poor– know that money is a factor on the dating circuit.
But like a bad country western song, they just want to be loved for who they are.
(None of this is true; it's for an example) Makes sense, right? Let's say instead that I'm really good at business. When I meet people, I talk about my boat, and expensive places I've been.
So, when I talk about gold diggers, I don't mean women who think it's cool if the guy they are interested in has money. I asked him where he tended to meet women, and he said hotel bars, matchmakers, and a couple dating sites. And there are gold digging women in fancy hotel bars and "successful man" dating sites.
I am referring to the kind of women who value a man's money more than they value the man himself. I asked which ones, and he referred to a couple of sites specializing in older, successful men and younger women. That's what these sites - and these venues - cater to. Once you stop meeting women in places that cater to gold diggers, you will meet a lot fewer of them. More Tough Love: Are you telling women to be gold diggers?
If I ask a girl out, it's usually to go shopping or somewhere expensive. Being rich is now my identity and I would attract women who are really into rich guys... In this example, I haven't given them anything else to possibly be attracted to. Of course, you're going to pay for most if not all of the first date, and probably future dates as well. But that doesn't mean you have to go to the most expensive place in your city and order the most expensive items.
If a woman would be interested in me in this scenario, the only possible thing to be interested in is my wealth. It doesn't get spend on her on the first few dates. If you follow these techniques and still end up with gold diggers, it probably relates to an inner game issue, or lack of understanding about the dating dynamics between older men and younger women.